It often feels like mompreneurs are left to struggle alone through life and business. Sometimes it feels like asking for or receiving help is more trouble than it’s worth.
But the one person you think should have your back it feels like they don’t and it’s pissing you off. What do you do about a hubby that don’t seem to giving a damn?
How many times have you given your hubby the side eye as you picked up a family room full of toys, or as you’ve carried your 90th load of laundry to the laundry room. As he’s laying over in bed sleeping, you don’t even bother asking for help because you know how long it’s going to take him to come to your aid, if at all. You feel like the only thing he’s best at is making excuses and avoiding why he can’t.
Give me a yes, yes, girl or the hand raise emoji in the comment section below if you’re feeling this.
Every day, you feel like you’re the captain of a sinking ship, and it’s driving you mad.
So, how do you get your hubby to support you?
Do you issue the silent treatment?
Do you just stop cleaning the house until he “gets” it?
Do you yell and cry?
Do you bang and slam?
Well, I’m sure you know by now that NONE of those methods work…long term at least.
And a lot of us have not been, taught to include our significant others on this journey because that’s not what our moms did, and so we’re just repeating this pattern.
While working inside of my Unload Overwhelm group I was able to support a mom to have this conversation and get things moving with her husband.
We worked on and that during her time in the program because it’s not like you hand him piece of paper and you go, “okay, honey I need”, and then all of a sudden, your husband’s like light bulb moment and moves into consistent action. No, this takes time, you are working through your BS belief systems to create something different.
There’s going to have to be reminders, constant meetups, that constant flow of communication. Walking her through that so that she was finally able to see what it looks like and where she needed her husband to interject that and where they were actually able to hire help. And she was able to begin to honor that just because he didn’t do it didn’t mean she had to do it.
Let’s keep this convo going Ma, What is the ONE thing you’d love to have your hubby support you with around the house?
I’m listening and am here to support you toward your next best moves.
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I’ll talk to you later girl…Bye
